Sabado, Marso 12, 2016


To Forgive And To Forget..

by: Genevieve Caalim

Forgive and forget.. Just like the cascading waterfalls.. Life continues and must go on cascading..

To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness.

I once read a book on forgiveness which shared this powerful idea. It said that whenever we refuse to forgive someone, the person we are not forgiving is really ourselves.

Flowers bloom in May.. Let's not regret.. Love is a gift from God.. We are a child of the universe. No less than the trees and the stars.. So therefore, be at peace with yourself. Forgive and forget and don't loose sight of love.

It makes sense doesn’t it? When you feel angry/bitter toward someone, it’s not the other person who is carrying the anger and bitterness. It’s you. For what it’s worth, the other person is probably not aware of how you are feeling toward him/her. 

You are the only person carrying the baggage around. On a deeper level, I believe you are angry/bitter at yourself for allowing yourself to be hurt by this person. This was what happened to me.

Carrying all these heavyweight emotions can be very tiring.

To forgive him/her, first forgive yourself. Think about how you are denying yourself of so much happiness by holding on to your grievances. Think about how you are preventing yourself from experiencing your real love because you are still hanging on to these baggage. 

Whenever you hold on to something, you prevent yourself from receiving new things in life. Forgive yourself for putting yourself through this trauma. Forgive yourself for everything that has happened. As you forgive yourself, forgiveness of the other person will occur naturally.

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